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THE LAST SHALL BE FIRST

Saturday, March 31, 2012 • John Tiller
Eli's Story of Tragedy and Triumph
 
Dear Gentle Friends~
 
We're delighted you've joined us today for a heartwarming story about a little boy named Eli, a special race, and the love of his parents. Grab a chair and your Kleenex, and prepare to be cheering for him at the finish line! I give you Eli's dad, John Tiller, our guest blogger, to share this story of grace. 
  
 
THE LAST SHALL BE FIRST
 
                                                           

John Tiller is a speaker and writer sharing his family's story of inspiration after tragedy. You can follow John and his family at www.TillerFamily.org ,on  Facebook http://www.facebook.com/tillerfam & Twitter  http://www.twitter.com/tillerfam .

Today my twelve-year-old son, Eli, is racing in his sixth and final one-mile Kids Run (for those ages five to twelve) in Richmond, VA. Immediately afterwards my wife, Tricia, and I will run one of the most popular races in the country, the Monument Avenue 10k. Over 1000 children will be in the Kids Run and over 40,000 participants will be in the 10k.
 
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Live bands and folks from all over the region line the streets to cheer on the runners every year, making this the area's premier sports and social event.

As Eli "ages-out" of the Kids Run it reminds us of how special the event has been for our family because there were years when we did not know if Eli would ever walk again. Eli was born perfectly healthy and developed normally until, at three-years-old, the unthinkable happened. He had a tragic, life-threatening accident in which he fell from a second-story window, head-first onto the asphalt driveway at our home. The accident left him with a severe brain injury.

After three weeks in a coma, he began the long road of re-learning every basic human function from thought, to speech, to mobility. As with all brain injuries, doctors could never provide a prognosis of how far he would recover. We were to simply treat him as intensively as possible and pray for good results. For the first three years, Tricia spent every waking moment trying to make our son well. It was her ONLY priority in life. She worked tirelessly with Eli administering 60+ hours per week of intensive home-based therapy. We had worked hard and we had faith that God would totally restore him.

After three long years, Eli had made significant progress. However, he was still very far from being completely healed. To this day, we continue to pray and provide the best treatment available. However, that year we made the very difficult decision to reduce his time in therapy so that the three of us could live life ... a new life with disability.

The three years of intensive therapy had taken a significant toll on all of us, especially Tricia. As she began to re-dedicate small amounts of time to herself, exercise became a part of her routine again. She signed up to train for her first Monument Avenue 10k. As she trained, she developed a vision that our son, despite his disability, would one day run that race. The following year, she took the first step toward that vision.

Tricia entered Eli in his first Kids Run at seven-years old, four years after the accident. The race wasn't designed for kids with disabilities, so we called the race organizers and explained our situation. They were touched by our story and wanted to him to run. We explained that his disability required him to use a cane and that we would need to walk with him. They were fine with all of that. The only requirement was that he must finish the mile in less than 30 minutes. This was because the "big race", the 10k, started 30 minutes after the Kids Run start and the two races shared portions of the same course, including the finish line. Therefore, if Eli did not finish within 30 minutes, he would have to exit the course without crossing the finish line. If that happened, it would turn a very exciting day into a very disappointing day. Until the day of the race, despite weeks of training, Eli's fastest one-mile training time was 37 minutes. Tricia and I debated withdrawing him because we were afraid that having to exit the course before the finish line would devastate all of us. However, we all really wanted this for Eli. So we just told him to do his best.
 
 
 
 
 Eli started the race hustling as fast as he could. After all of the other kids ran past him, the local baseball team mascot, Diamond Duck, noticed Eli and grabbed his hand. Eli's face lit up like a Christmas tree and he started moving even faster! The mascot then walked the entire course with Eli and Tricia! Police cars followed with blue lights flashing which signaled that Eli was the final runner of the race.

Long after all of the other kids had finished, Eli, Tricia and Diamond Duck approached the finish line with the police escort. The crowds enthusiastically cheered him, and the pressure mounted as everyone wondered if Eli would make it to the finish line before the 30-minute cutoff. His finish time? 28 minutes and 35 seconds!

Training for, and running, this race has become a highlight of Eli's life every year since that day. Over the years his times have improved and he's always finished under the 30-minute deadline! The crowds of spectators now know him and cheer for him by name. His interviews have become a staple of the local television station's live race coverage.

Before this experience, I didn't really know what Jesus meant when he said that in the Kingdom of God, "the last shall be first" (Matthew 20:16a NIV). Now, thanks to Eli ... I think I understand.

Question for you: What does the "last shall be first" mean to you?

NOTE: For pictures and stories of today's race, be sure to check out our blogsite at http://www.tillerfamily.org/ later this week!

* Starting line photo courtesy of Richmond Sportsbackers.
 
Thank you, John, for this wonderful story about your precious family. May God continue to give Eli, and you all, the strength to run the race for Him. God bless you.
 
Readers, please leave us your thoughts below. Until next time, dear friends~
 
All Gifts by Grace,
 
Barbara

 

 

Visitor Comments (6)

Thanks, Vonda!

Vonda, I'm glad you dropped by. Thanks for your prayers and blessing! John

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story!

I sat at my computer and cried as I read your inspiring story. What a precious boy! And what a reminder of God's goodness and grace. I pray His continued blessing on your family.

Thank you

Ladies, thanks so much for your kind comments and prayers!

Thanks for stopping by!

Thank you Melanie and Janet. We appreciate your stopping by to read this awesome story about Eli! I wiped tears, too, when I read it. Please share this with your friends. I hope you'll stop to visit often.

Blessings,

Barbara

eli's race

Eli's story is so so touching and moving. I have tears in my eyes as I write this. God bless your family and may all of you run many more races!

Thanks for sharing this

Thanks for sharing your story with us, John! And for my first cry of the day! :-) As a former teacher of special needs students, I can imagine all that you and your family have been through and accomplished! I am praying for you and Tricia and Eli.

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